My friend ditched me for her other friend. Help?
Okay, so, me and my supposed "best friend" have had these plans for Halloween for almost a month now. We were gonna do all these awesome things and whatnot. Then, today at school, I start talking to her and say "I can’t wait ’till halloween, it’s gonna be killer." and she’s like, "Oh, right. can’t anymore, Kim (not her real name) and me are going trick or treating. We’re gonna dress up as two people from the same T.V show!" So I said, "Wait, we have plans! Why would you do that?!" And she said, "Well, maybe you wanna come with us?" … So I said, "And I’m supposed to be this random person not fitting in with your guys’ costumes, walking behind you with my head down while you guys are laughing and ignoring me?" (They do that whenever me, her, and Kim hang out. I’m always left out!) And then the bell rang to go to class so we couldn’t talk anymore. And I haven’t been replying to her texts or calls either. Immature, I know. But she just ruined my favorite holiday that was supposed to be kick a** and awesome. I don’t want to go with them because I am always ignored with them. Also, I stopped trick or treating at 3rd grade. And, my costume doesn’t fit in which isn’t that big a deal..and Kim is ANNOYING. I’m not even kidding. Non-stop talking, once when I was drinking water and she pushed the cup and spilt it all over me. I was pissed. And whenever she’s around I just want to leave. So, I guess my question is, what do I do for halloween? I don’t want it to be ruined…it’s my favorite holiday! And, should I still be hanging out with my friend even though she just tossed me aside? I do have other friends, but they’re kinda annoying and loud and girly. I feel inferior to all of my friends, like I’m no ones favorite, you know? *Sigh* Do I just not know how to have a good time with people? Also, we’re all in 9th grade, if that helps anyone out in figuring out what I can do for Halloween or something. Thanks for everyones help! I really appretiate it.
Leave those b*tches.
I’m not kidding. Let them ruin eachother. you know what, I know they will seem like they’ve had a great time and all when you see them at school later on, but eventually they will both trip over their own ego’s so just let them have their fun and pay for it to!!
make some friend with guys?? they’re way chiller. whatever you do DON’T go with that b*tch chick she does not deserve your effort any more. don’t bother with her. first, boost your self-esteem somehow. then just start talking to people, if nothing incredible happens for halloween for you, relax its okay, because there will be another halloween where you will be with the right people at the right time. who knows..maybe you need to be alone and just don’t know it.
at any rate. you’ve got to stop being subdued to quiet follower. If you’re shy, here’s what i do: hold your head up when you walk through the halls, instead of looking at the ground. don’t be afraid to look people in the eyes or to smile. even if they don’t know you–it’s really okay! not everyone will respond with the same level of interest and that can be hard, but once you’ve got your face known, people will eventually be more drawn to you. and once they are, speaking up in a crowd becomes much more natural.
it takes some time to make these changes, but i suggest you start now. like i said, just keep your head up in the halls. think about things that make you happy, or something funny you saw on the wall, and notice everyone around you. ….if you don’t want to be seen with some dork, just talk while you walk and go to you locker or something:/
don’t fret.
hope i helped.
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hip hop anonymous | Sep 26, 2009
For get her and go with other people..
Or you can just go to a party=]
alex s | Sep 26, 2009
=/ mm im tha same position with you.
sorry i wont be much help but i really like that you said this
"So I said, "Wait, we have plans! Why would you do that?!" And she said, "Well, maybe you wanna come with us?" … So I said, "And I’m supposed to be this random person not fitting in with your guys’ costumes, walking behind you with my head down while you guys are laughing and ignoring me?"
thanks for standing up for yourself.
dont consider poeple like that a bestfriend. its like there is no meaning to that word now, its more like betrayal
=/ youll have fun, i promise
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